Hi @bunr, (sorry, found this message half completed) I found that mine felt hard and very foreign for about the first 10 months and then it started to soften and drop slightly. I went back to the gym at about three months after my surgery (single mastectomy with immediate recon using implant) and started a weights program, I had it specially tailored for me by a sports physio to mimic movements I needed to complete tactical training recertification for my job. I've now had a breast lift on both my foob and natural breast and am now 2 1/2 years from initial mastectomy. I have recently been able to lie on my side properly but still get strange sensations re my pec muscle. My implant is now so much softer and it doesn't resemble the hardness it had initially. I know it will never feel like my real breast but I can cope with that, it will also never sag like my real breast. All the best lovely, sorry about the delay in answering. Xx