?? You are so nice. Lucky to have your daughter's support. Whilst I was in hospital, and my darling girl did fly down to stay near me for 4 days, she told me that her husband had told her that she must never drive along the highway and main roads leading to where we live (about 2 hours from Launceston), as the the road was too dangerous!!!!! No it's not. He is a doctor in Sydney, very controlling in a clever, subtle way. This was his way of making sure my girl hasn't visited. I say nothing, but it is difficult at times.