?? Thank you, and I am sad for you that you have had times of sadness as well. My breast cancer diagnosis was a total shock. The after effects of my surgery still linger, sometimes badly. People assume that you are OK. Or don't want to know! My sister in Sydney, whom I adore and we are very close, speaking on the 'phone a number of times a week, doesn't ask how I am. Quite strange really. My daughter rings once or twice a month. A busy life, with 3 teenage sons, but there is always time to be kind and thoughtful isn't there. Stay happy and isn't it wonderful to have the BCNA family where we can talk and share our experiences and feelings. ??????