Acceptance
3 rounds of surgery over. Very early detection started with conservation surgery in both. Next wider margins. Still not clear in left. I made the decision for bilateral mastectomy and confidently say ...
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I won't say that I feel wonderful being monoboobed but I don't fancy the idea of surgery either and since there's not fairy with a magic wand around, this is how I am. I don't hide in the change rooms - if it bothers people, they can deal with it. I do wear a prosthesis when I wear a bra which is when I want to look vaguely respectable so I'd put one on to go to the shops but not to go for a walk up the road. If I was flat on both sides, I probably wouldn't bother then. I may one day decide to have reconstruction but at the moment, it doesn't seem likely.