3 rounds of surgery over. Very early detection started with conservation surgery in both. Next wider margins. Still not clear in left. I made the decision for bilateral mastectomy and confidently say ...
Most of the time a find 'well meaning folk' a source of major irritation. How do I manage? 'Thanks, I'm very comfortable with my decision.' That's it, no explanations, you are not required to defend your decisions and choices to anyone. Good that you found someone who made the same choice.