3 rounds of surgery over. Very early detection started with conservation surgery in both. Next wider margins. Still not clear in left. I made the decision for bilateral mastectomy and confidently say ...
No reconstruction was the right decision for me too, although I am monoboobed and do wear a prosthesis. Only once walked out of the house without it! But have no problem stripping off in change rooms when required. Each to her own. I have no issues about it at all and also accept that reconstruction is an important part of recovery for others. Bear in mind that the majority of Australian women still don’t have reconstruction (for whatever reason). Best wishes.