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Thank you
Hi to all!
Of late I have found myself in a tangle with users of the forum that have an angry ant attitude. I get it totally that the diagnosis that is given is totally unexpected and hard to take and need to hit out but there's a right and wrong way to go about it.
It is totally unfair and I have become a little tired and jaded by it all and feel I need to bow out for awhile.
Thank you to all that have supported me and I know I have tried to impart knowledge and sensibility to others in return.
On a positive note I have just been through my review with the Breast Surgeon and gone back onto annual reviews after my recent hiccup so I am over the moon about that. I just need the Oncology part of it all to settle, both medical and gynaecology and I will be more than pleased.
Take care and please support where you can and if you're unhappy with something said then think about it before responding as we are all vulnerable at varying times and support BCNA with advocacy where you can
bye
Of late I have found myself in a tangle with users of the forum that have an angry ant attitude. I get it totally that the diagnosis that is given is totally unexpected and hard to take and need to hit out but there's a right and wrong way to go about it.
It is totally unfair and I have become a little tired and jaded by it all and feel I need to bow out for awhile.
Thank you to all that have supported me and I know I have tried to impart knowledge and sensibility to others in return.
On a positive note I have just been through my review with the Breast Surgeon and gone back onto annual reviews after my recent hiccup so I am over the moon about that. I just need the Oncology part of it all to settle, both medical and gynaecology and I will be more than pleased.
Take care and please support where you can and if you're unhappy with something said then think about it before responding as we are all vulnerable at varying times and support BCNA with advocacy where you can
bye
17 Replies
- @kezmusc
Yes I understand that the hit out wasn't personal. I am worn out by the angry ants. This is the third tangle in recent months where I am trying to help and console. I dislike conflict! Had enough!
Thanks for the support and wishing you wellness and better days with Tamoxifen.
Take care x - It's not a nice experience, particularly when your heart is in the right place. Take care. Mxxx
- @iserbrown. Congrats on the good news. Please take comfort in knowing the amount of people that you have helped and inspired not the ones that are angry. I don't think they are angry at you really just the situation and you happened to be in the firing line at the time.
Take care lovely lady.
xoxox - @iserbrown sorry we won't hear your voice of reason for a while , can totally understand you taking a break !
Hope your good news continues!
Take care & thanks for caring about others
Hope to hear from you again xx - @iserbrown completely understand - people like that get you down. Congratulations on your recent good news too xo
- Take care of yourself.
I have read those threads with disappointment, and unfortunately understand your need to step away, hopefully only for a while, not for good - Take care. X
