Dear @kmakm and @sister there are crappy times because of breast cancer as well as just plain crappy times.Vent when you need to where it is safe to do so - on here , on paper and burn it or with a special person who cares and can handle it. Then as @SoldierCrab says time to put on the big girl panties again - you can and will do this .No doubt you will stumble again but then as Warrior Queens up you will get again - that’s life for all of us. There is no way I can see either of you doing otherwise. Whilst breast cancer has made you take a step or two backwards it will not stay that way - possibly it has also made you think more deeply about your life and what matters.You will do mad fun things with your kids again @Sister and your daughter’s health will get back on track @kmakm.Life ain’t over and it is good even thru shitty moments.xoxo