Dry , hot and quite honestly " GO AWAY " !

I think two things are separate, the mind and the body. May I be up front and say I haven't had actual intercourse with my husband since November before my operation although we are up to hugs and cuddling at least now. He has mistakenly gone for a feel of his favourite boob and its not there where it used to be. Its like we need to get to know each other all again but jeez in this winter cold now isn't exactly romantic weather either.

Before  I had breast surgery my hubby and I went to a sex shop (the first time our entire lives) and I bought good lubrication, we bought a very naughty movie and I bought a rabbit vibrator. I have only watched the movie once as it was a bit of an eye opener and I have a good memory and imagination so I haven't watched it again. I think hubby has watched it alone quite a few times doing what men do and he's cool with that. I just say to him don't even imagine I can contort to the moves in that movie and he understands a wife and an acting model are different creatures. I tell my adult sons the same when they get to looking for a wife lol.

Ok, to the rabbit thing, you can insert it, that's the obvious bit and it has rabbit ears for tickling that other bit. It is rare I am even in the mood to try this but for my own peace of mind that everything works and I am penetrable I have tried it. All good. Now to wait for some nicer weather to get our layers off.