Thanks Cath just told a friend yesterday abt diagnosis after chemo finished(i hadn't spoke to her for 6 months due to negativity and not keeping secrets or trust)
And she called me,saying I had left some stuff in her garage.I told her,and then gave her time to think.Called back and she said I can't cope I need to take it in.You can't be responsible for people's reaction.That's why these forums are great to say exactly what we feel as others share there experiences brings me support and relief from not holding it all in.LOL