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Julez1958
4 years agoMember
Hi @Kahm
Your initial post said “ wrong spot” but you have in fact come to the right spot!
We have all been there one way or another.
Everyone is different but we all seem to go through the essential stages of grief at the diagnosis.
I never cried so much in my life and all my friends, family and work colleagues would classify my as stoic and resilient.
Night Howls says it all - you will often reach your darkest moments late at night or in the early hours.
I had some counselling early on which really helped me and have a listen to the Charlotte Tottman podcast on here ( see “announcement” above ) - she is a physchologist who specialised in cancer patients who got breast cancer herself.
Reach out for whatever help you need , counselling, breast care nurse , GP friends and relatives and know that you can post any questing or rant on here, we are totally non judgmental and will do our best to help.
🌺
Your initial post said “ wrong spot” but you have in fact come to the right spot!
We have all been there one way or another.
Everyone is different but we all seem to go through the essential stages of grief at the diagnosis.
I never cried so much in my life and all my friends, family and work colleagues would classify my as stoic and resilient.
Night Howls says it all - you will often reach your darkest moments late at night or in the early hours.
I had some counselling early on which really helped me and have a listen to the Charlotte Tottman podcast on here ( see “announcement” above ) - she is a physchologist who specialised in cancer patients who got breast cancer herself.
Reach out for whatever help you need , counselling, breast care nurse , GP friends and relatives and know that you can post any questing or rant on here, we are totally non judgmental and will do our best to help.
🌺