Hi @Miss M - wow, what a huge shock this all must be for you. You have come to the right place, so welcome.
I guess you were completely railroaded after finding your Initial bc diagnosis was secondary bc - less common than I thought after attending the forum in Sydney last month.
Well, membership of this club is not exclusive - it really is one that none of us want to be a part of in many respects - but feel free to vent, get feedback, ask lots of questions.
The BCNA online staff are pretty helpful too - I have only been an online forum member just over a month.
Thinking of you re: the rest of your results tomorrow.
Sheryl x