HiGerry2
I would encourage you to join the private group on here “ Living with metastatic breast cancer”.
The name says it all - increasing numbers of women are “ living” with stage 4 breast cancer for many years.
There are so many different treatments now and lots of clinical trials and research so the future is a lot brighter than it was.
What city / town are you in ?If you add that to your profile you may get more targeted advice from others on here,
Do you have a McGrath nurse ?They are a great source of comfort and information for stage 4 patients.
Please know that on here you can ask any question and vert away and it is a place of non judgmental support.
Take care .