hi @Ekay,I know that your head is spinning right now, all of the above information is spot on and at this time I wont add anything further,you have enough to get your head around,like you I am stage 4, which means that although the disease is incurable it is manageable and I should know I am 10 years and still going strong,they talk about this now as being like a chronic disease, yes there will be challenges, but you can do this, we are all here for you and your lovely family, it really is a case of one day at a time and breathe,it really does help, take all the support you are offered, now is not the time to say no, I can manage,please keep in contact, take care,
wendy55