Metastatic Breast Cancer found just by accident

People often mean well but really should put their brains into gear before their mouths.  The gatekeeper idea can work really well.  My husband dealt with family and my two closest friends with everyone else.  There was a great thread on here a couple of years ago - something like "Did you really say that?"

@enaid Be kind to yourself and allow yourself whatever feelings you have.  You have had a massive shock and it takes some coming to terms with.