@Enaid What a distressing situation 😕. Difficult to say the least. You have friends here on the forum so check in whenever you need. And please, do NOT listen to those stories. I seriously don’t understand what’s wrong with people sometimes. I heard stories too before I was even diagnosed. I’m staying away from those people, or just don’t talk about the cancer so they don’t have an opportunity to share more 🙄.
It’s better to get advice and help from people who have experienced it, and that’s us here. So I can tell you it will be hard, but that you definitely have the strength. Definitely. Just please take it one step at a time. Otherwise you will exacerbate your anxiety unnecessarily. It’s a long process so do what needs to be done at the moment, and in the meantime still try to find fun and pleasurable things to do, as much as it’s possible. Don’t wait till it’s all over to enjoy yourself. You should do something good for yourself every day.
Good luck and keep in touch 🍀♥️
