Sorry to hear your pain and frustration. I too have just been diagnosed and will be having a double mastectomy on the 2/7. I’m just putting my faith and trust in the doctors that they know what they’re doing. Take one step at a time and trust the process. I too have felt frustrated and annoyed but they do this every day. Take a breath and one step at a time. Everything will become clearer. I opted for two lumpectomies until they said no more now I have to do bilateral mastectomy. Nothing is ideal about this situation for any of us. But trust in the process. Best of luck to you. I’m 59 and have two kids and a wonderful supportive husband. Lean on those you love. 🥰