Well...crap
How much crying can one person do?? Without the headaches that follow??
I know there is a song called "I don't like Mondays", but I've now found my own reasons to not like Mondays. It was a Monda...
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What a shock for you. But at least you're thinking very positively - "20 yrs down the track etc". I believe one way or another if this was meant to be, then it would happen - no matter what you did or didn't do. Don't feel it's your fault by any means.
I'm a bit philosophical about all this and figure that its a test of character, strength and love. I try not to go down the "what if" scenerio as I figure it's a bit pointless as it's already happened.
You need to put yourself first and learn to say 'no' if you don't want to do something. Embrace life, do things you enjoy, try out some challenges - you never know it might be heaps of fun.
But don't forget we are all here for you when you need to talk.
Take care and go and relax in a lovely warm bath with lots of scented candles around it...play some lovely music too - does wonders for the body (and the soul!).
Luv H