oh dear - what a year you've had @Blossom1961 ..... All the best with your results next week .... hopefully it is just inflammation/infection as the lymph nodes are the first line of defence there, too xx ....
I hope hubby's surgery goes ahead as planned .... and that you are able to find somewhere comfy for the duration of his recovery/treatment ... I wonder if anyone needs a house 'looked after' in the area, that you could 'do'? At least you'd have a bit more comfort factor? Could the Social Worker attached to the hospital help you at all there, with suggestions?
Have you got your future accommodation sorted yet? xx
take care & all the best