I am sorry to hear your news Cobie.That damm BC is never really gone is it? I have no experience with what you are going through,but I am sure there will be many ladies who do.I do know that treatment for secondaries is good,and getting better all the time,so hopefully you can get on top of it and look forward to happier times ahead.It is great that you have your daughter to support you.I have 2 adult daughters,one that lives with us.I often give a silent thanks for all that she has done for me in the past year.Take care Cobie,and please stay in touch,if only to have somewhere to let your feelings out.xxHugsxxxRobyn