Good to hear from you @wendy55 . I think it's as important for us to hear the voices of those with mets, as it is to hear those without. Some of us will go on to this - we don't know who. And just the same as not having a mammogram will not stop you getting cancer, not hearing from mets people will not stop this happening. It shows us that life goes on, albeit with new challenges. I cannot know what you go through in the same way that those without bc cannot know what I go through but it doesn't mean that I shouldn't listen and support you.