Welcome to the group. Although its a group we all wish didn't need to exist.
Yes positive attitude goes a long way. Glad to hear that things are stabilizing for you, and the pain is under control.
I have been living with Mets for two years and try to not think about it too much. Though I was recently diagnosed with brain mets as well so life has been a bit hectic for the last month or so. But now at the typical wait and see stage. Which is when life goes back to our new normal.
Yes it's not curable but many people live with life threatening diseases for many years, we will be no different. And it's amazing what new treatments are found every day.
Glad to have met you.