Hi, you sound like an amazingly strong woman, I am so glad you messaged me. You have had to deal with so much in such a short time. Yes it can be managed, just to encourage you, my last scan two weeks ago, came back with mildly less promident in two sections of my skull, less promindant in my thoraic spine, stabilised in my pelvis and rest of spine. The lesion in my chest wall had halved its size. Although this is not curable we need to stay positvie and fight this battle together, there are treatments that can help us stablise and manage our pain, each one of us is individual and remember if you are not happy with your treatment plan then dont be afraid to speak to someone else. I was getting no where and then when I spoke up my treatment starting happening and look at the last result. Stay positive and stay strong, easier said then done, but I alread know that you are strong by your post .