Proper Introduction

Once again, I cant understand how every one is feeling, or as you put it, being optimistic about  stage 4, is indeed an entirely different point of view.  It is important, that I have caused this response from you, because it wakes me up to the reality of what  a lot of other women are experiencing -  that I havent. (to date)

I am a sure that I cant understand what you could be going through, and I guess my broad sweeping comments arent appropriate for all instances.  I do mean well, because my main aim is to encourage ladies to fight, and give hope.  For those who dont have that, I am sorry and it is an area I haven reached as yet.  As a Triple Negative, who has her portal in her chest, I always have a chance it can come back also.  

Precisely why at the Cancer Council we quickly discovered that the "Coffee and Chat"  fell into a variety of cases too at one table.  One day a lady visited and brought out the photo's of the coffin she was decorating with her grand children, for example.  On that day, there was a teenage girl at the table, so its always a mindfield of emotions.  2 ladies said they werent coming any more, and that girl didnt return.  So, there is a clear need to have similar situations in the same room!  (tricky)

Thank you for reminding me, and I will be more aware of other situations from now on....take care Deb

X Bel