Newly diagnosed metastatic triple negative

I realise I'm late to respond. I haven't been as active on here as on Facebook groups over the last couple of years but I wanted to say I hope you have found a bit of equilibrium since your post. I have found the worst time is always when you are waiting for a plan to start. Did you end up going on enhertu or trodolvy? I haven't been on trodolvy (I'm her2+) but I was on enhertu for 2.5 years. It was tough on it but I am so grateful for the time it gave me. There is an enhertu Facebook group that has loads and loads of information about managing side effects of you ended up on that path. I'm hoping you are doing as well as you can be. Xx