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melclarity
8 years agoMember
Hey @Etta it's incredibly difficult, there just aren't any words, it is frightening...I don't have mets but had a recurrence at the 4yr mark and I remember it was incredibly devastating to deal with and so was the treatment. Did you have chemo at the last diagnosis? I just know this...NOBODY can make that decision for you and I agree with others, if you tell them..the opinions will fly. I was going to not do chemo and I had people say I HAVE TO DO IT, I HAVE TO DO IT FOR MY KIDS. My answer to that was...If I cannot do this for me?? I cannot do it for anyone else. It isn't selfish at all...this is about you nobody else. I'd discuss it with your Oncologist too and sift through your options. Big hugs...Melinda xo