@sammy1970 how long after your original diagnosis were the mets discovered???
It really worries me that the Doctors seem to gloss over your concerns, like the lump under my arm.... its was there growing for 6 years, tripled in size, changed shape, began causing a lot of pain in my arm, developed mild lympadeama & still they glossed over it waving it off for 6 whole years which mean by the time they finally did investigate it had spread to my bones... If they had properly investigated in 3 or 4 years ago I likely would not be in this position.