Hi @maggie001
What a shock for you ... YOU have a right to be sad angry and vent all you want girl you been through the wringer and now you have been handed more... I have no answers regarding your questions but want to say that I am here and listening and sending you energy to cope with this news and the journey ahead... you know you have picked yourself up and done this stuff before ... but please allow the emotions to surface and grieve as you need to... this changes it again and any of us would be in shock if it was ourselves...
sending you love and hugs and energy to allow the grieving to surface.
Soldier Crab