Hi Ephima,
Sorry to hear about your diagnosis. I am in a similar position to you. I was diagnosed with bc in Nov 2012 & had a lumpectomy in Dec 2012. Did chemo & radiotherapy in 2013. In late 2016 my oncologist told me that all was clear & to go away and enjoy life. All was good until March 2016 when they found it had spread to my liver & then in April 2016 I was told it is also in my spine. Life is too short. Enjoy every minute as you said. I thought I was a strong person but my diagnosis has tested me. But I will not give up.. Big virtual hugs to you... Ang