Hi Lynne, I know how you feel when you are told you have metastatic breast cancer. I was diagnosed with numerous bone mets. in 2012 and have been on different treatments to keep the cancer stable. I consider myself to have always been an organized person, so as soon as I was diagnosed, I wrote down what I wanted in regards to my funeral etc. for my family. I think why I did this, was because I had organized my mothers funeral not long before my diagnosis. I actually felt a weight off my shoulders when I had done this and then put the information away in a place the family know of and got on with living and enjoying time with my family and friends. I guess that I'm lucky to be retired, but for me it was good to take time and think about what you want. I hope everything goes well for you with your treatment.