Hi Lynne. Sorry to meet you under such difficult circumstances. I am in a similar boat to you. I was diagnosed with mets in my liver & spine in 2015. My mets were stable up until last month when my oncologist told me the pain I'd been experiencing in my stomach was not gall stones but the liver mets which are increasing. I tried Paclitaxel & found it relatively free of major side effects. I could do my normal things. Unfortunately the Paclitaxel did not work for me so I am now on another chemo.
I am like you a very pragmatic & organised person. So I've made sure my will is up to date & I have powers of attorney in place. But it is too early to consider funerals etc. I know the news of mets is overwhelming at first, but just take it one step at a time & continue living life as best you can.
Ange xx