That's a real bummer, @GJH_104  -  a few of us have had some upsetting experiences with our treatment/experiences and it makes us very vulnerable & sceptical ..... so fair enough in wanting the best straight up ..... 
I have 2 buddies who've recently been diagnosed with mets after 15 years 'NED' .... so am aware of how much of a shock it is.  Both were told it was 'slow growing' & their treatment should be able to control it ....  hopefully yours as well.
If you make contact with the North West Cancer Centre in Tamworth - it may be a start ..... 
Radiation Oncology Reception:
Telephone: 6767 8720  
Fax: 6761 2780
Clinic Reception:
Telephone: 6767 7760  
Fax: 6766 9173
I wish you well on finding your new team xxx