Ah @DCP that is rotton news. Family living a long way away can make things even tougher.
There is a closed group for young women, give them a tap and they will let you in--sadly, there are a number of people in your situation.
About the only advice I can give you is try to organise any family visits so they are staggered and everyone doesn't arrive at once. This will be a long haul for you and will need support once you get going with your treatment. People's natural instinct is to rush to help as soon as they can; its good to have someone who arrives a bit later when the dust has settled a bit.
Good luck in the coming weeks Mxxx