@iserbrown you are right enjoy each day as it comes if possible.
I remembered many years ago having a conversation with a neighbour
Anway she told me her mother was very ill. She was trying to persuade her mother to have fun, spend money on herself. The mother said no the money should go to her children/grandkids.
The daughter said no... they have enough be kind to yourself. There is plenty for everyone.
The mother finally took the advice and the daughter reported to me mum had the time of her life and enjoyed the time she had left. best wishes