Finding a new kind of normal

Hi Tennile, so sorry you find yourself in this situation...i too had similar experience in that i was 15 years c,earance from first instance of B/C only to have mets diagnosed in spine, liver and recently abdominal wall...i too had very little pain leading up to diagnosis which is now stage four and supposidly incuable. I too am on denosumab (xgeva) monthly injection, and was on femera, switched to aromsin and actually now have 6 months of chemo due to breathing issues and mets on the liver..... i struggle with the 'incuable' bit but I'm pretty strong minded which i think is half the battle with a positive attitude.
So hang in there, keep strong and positive and have good people behind you....and just know that sometimes it is a bit daunting and we have to pick ourselves up and keep fighging tne fight!