Hi Sam I'm so sorry you feel that your family is letting you down.
Please remember that you can't control what anyone else thinks, says or does - you can only control your reaction. Your family are going through this too - they are trying to come to terms with your illness and they aren't always going to be happy about it.
Its not that I don't care about her, I just want to share some happiness and lift her spirits.
Regarding your daughter who is OS I think this is very important - maybe your daughter doesn't want to dwell on your cancer - maybe she is trying to help you feel better by sharing her exciting stories. You say you love to hear them so concentrate on that and don't waste time worrying about what she isn't saying.
As for your husbands comment - I've got nothing...
After my treatment I have chemo brain and I constantly forget things. I would try to forget those horrid words as soon as possible.
Sending you a big hug xxx
