Hi Sheryl, you are so right, the forums are really encouraging. I met a lady at the recent forum in Brisbane who said that bc was the best thing that ever happened to her. Remember thinking how bizarre, how could you ever think this is a good thing to invade our lives? But she told me that against the backdrop of fear, anger and grief, the loving support of family and friends just shone all the brighter. I'm so sorry both for your struggle and your dear Mums. While I wish we could spare our families this tough trip, we simply couldn't manage without them. What an encouragement you must have been for your Mum. Do hope your next bone scan brings good news, Tracey xx