@Cora you’re welcome 🙂. You will feel so much better after a shower 😁.
Btw, I’m wasn’t trying to invalidate your feelings. Only you know how certain gestures make you feel and what your boundaries are. People should respect that. I was only trying to point out what your surgeon’s intentions could’ve been, especially since a lot of surgeons seem to be coming off as non empathetic and patients are complaining about it, so some might be trying to be appear as more caring. Others probably are by nature more caring. At the end of the day, it’s about what you feel comfortable with.
Enjoy your shower and time with your partner 🥰.