Just copying my reply across .... all the best @cathMor - if you are still in pain .... contact your breast care nurse, as there really shouldn't be pain at this stage unless your skin broke down badly & blistered xx. It does take a while before you start feeling 'normal' again ... take care xx
You've been thru a lot, so i reckon you're allowed to loll round in your PJs - but if it upsets you, ring our help line (at the top of the page) & chat with them
As the girls say,
@cathmor ... make haste slowly - the fatigue can be a culmination of the whole shebang, from discovery, diagnosis, surgery & rads ..... almost like 'dropping the bundle' but in a good way! It is virtually the end of your 'active treatment' .... but you are doing SO WELL ... just be kind to yourself & if you have others around you, accept all help offers that come your way - whether it is cooking, cleaning, driving you around ..... As you are 'able to' - try & get back to doing those things that you normally love doing .... that will add some normalcy back to your routine ..... mine was fishing & playing ukulele!! 😉 It just takes your mind right off 'the current situation' ..... and gives full concentration to your hobbies .... blocking out all the other stuff that is going on.
Where abouts are you? You can add your town/city to your Profile - and other members may be able to advise you on services that are available in your area! And maybe catch up for a coffee & a chat, covid willing! xx
Check out this thread that includes lots of stuff on the Forum that you may like to check out .... from art & craft to funny stuff (to give you a laugh) to questions to put to your Team on your next appointment .....
https://onlinenetwork.bcna.org.au/discussion/23477/a-big-welcome-to-all-our-new-members#latest