PAIN
Does the mental pain for having had breast cancer ever leave. I know I am not coping with having had cancer, having 2 mastectomies, having had chemo, living with the nephropathy pain, having a very u...
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Hi @Barks34
So sorry to hear you are feeling so low. The drama of diagnosis and treatment is enough to handle without all the other things added in. A holiday sounds like a plan if you can do it. On your own might be be best.
It is unfortunate, but understandable to an extent, that most people think you get treated then you're all better now. They know no better. We know that is not how it works. I think we all agree that we are "lucky" to have found the rotten thing when we did and we are greatful of course. It does not, however, mean it is any easier to deal with the fall out that follows.
Time does make things better but dealing with other outside, stressful influences will make it a very long haul indeed. Possibly time to cull anybody creating more drain on you than required??????
Please keep talking on here and definitely call the helpline when you need it.
Everyone is here for you lovely. You are not alone. xoxoxoxoxo
So sorry to hear you are feeling so low. The drama of diagnosis and treatment is enough to handle without all the other things added in. A holiday sounds like a plan if you can do it. On your own might be be best.
It is unfortunate, but understandable to an extent, that most people think you get treated then you're all better now. They know no better. We know that is not how it works. I think we all agree that we are "lucky" to have found the rotten thing when we did and we are greatful of course. It does not, however, mean it is any easier to deal with the fall out that follows.
Time does make things better but dealing with other outside, stressful influences will make it a very long haul indeed. Possibly time to cull anybody creating more drain on you than required??????
Please keep talking on here and definitely call the helpline when you need it.
Everyone is here for you lovely. You are not alone. xoxoxoxoxo