@Halla I like Esther Perel, I follow her on IG. I haven’t heard that statement though, although it makes a lot of sense. I was raised Orthodox but pretty young realised it didn’t make sense. Then became an atheist but didn’t like that. Neither one seemed right. Then I discovered the spiritual way of thinking, or similar anyway. So now I believe in the Universe, or The Great Divine, which is an energy sourced from love, that lives within each of us. It gives you guidance to get what you ask for, as long as it’s for everyone’s higher good.