@kmakm they are hard enough to handle when only one at a time are carrying on let alone all of them together
hugs
if you crack an answer on the 18 yo let me know I could do with tips. 18yo boy in my house is currently under threat of parent teacher interviews in a week or so which he got told if I get any surprises about his homework it will be the last time he sees his gaming pc for the rest of the year - he knows I’m serious too, it has been taken away a number of times for a whole term before
generally I have to nag to get things done (ie ask, ask and scream like a psycho) they all act surprised as if they don’t know they have set chores(they do) and I get they are busy with sport and schoolwork but I’m busy with work and running them around so no excuses.
Hope your daughter is better, yep year 10 has a lot of homework but as we say here no point fighting city hall just get it done.