Very nicely put @Mazbeth.
I think everyone who has been through this becomes a sage in some way even if we cant express adequately. That understanding is priceless.
There is a show on ABC right now called Lauras choice. I cant watch it. Its about an elderly lady who wants to voluntarily euthanase. I said to my hubby that it causes conflict for me because on one side i empathise with people chronically ill and on the other side i cant fathom giving away my life. He said he agreed with not giving away a life but i said no its more to me, ive just spent 9 months doing everything to stay alive and hanging with people in chemo who wish that they had the life they wanted. Oh he said.
I have no doctor appts next week! I booked 3 exercise sessions instead!