Your'e a better person than I @Blossom1961 I wouldn't have been able to keep my big mouth shut. I hate rudeness and people passing judgement on others they don't know or even deign to understand. All I can say is focus on those which love and adore you and keep you uplifted. I generally find people who do pass judgement have low self esteem about themselves. If there is one thing I have learnt about this shit fest of a disease it is that I have made a point to try and remove all negativity from my life and surround myself with awesome people who make me laugh. Life's to bloody short to even give people like that any ounce of your mind space. Big hugs from North Qld xox