Applying for compasionate grounds to release superannuation

Hi @Suzie82, this is really tough and the rules are very tight. This is a link to the ato information .

https://www.ato.gov.au/individuals/super/withdrawing-and-using-your-super/early-access-to-your-super/

I believe you apply through the ATO. You may already know the ATO information. @Locksley had a good idea. They must help people with this and know much about all the issues with this. 

Wishing you all the best. I hope you can access the super you need.