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Katie40
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13 years ago

Working through chemo

Hi everyone,

I have not really talked to anyone who has gone through what I'm going through yet, I wasn't sure I wanted too, but reading some of the blogs has made me think that I'd like to now.  It might help me deal with it and might even help other ladies out there that are going through this bump in their lives.

I was diagnosed at 39 in September 2012 with stage 3 infiltrating ductal carcenoma in my left breast with lymph node involvement. It was quite a shock considering I had had an ultrasound on that breast in May 2012 as I was concerned about some lumpiness and was told it was just fibrous breast tissue. So that was just what I thought it was until my nipple started to retract!! By that stage the tumor was too big to operate on and I started Chemo in October to shrink it. I have had 5 out of 6 chemo sessions now and doing ok, my breast has shrunk down to normal and even feels like the other one now so the chemo is working. Found the first three sessions of chemo not too bad and was able to go back to work after about 5 days rest. These last two sessions were on Docetaxel and have thrown me about a bit, but I am still going to work, although I have a couple of extra days off. I have found that going to work inbetween sessions has really helped me get through it, gives me something else focus on. It helps that I have a very supportive employer though. I am actually looking forward to my last session, mainly because its the last one. I still have a long way to go (mastectomy, radiation and then hormone therapy), but it feels good to nearly be finished what I'm hoping is the worst part. 

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  • This obviously is such an individual thing, but for me, runninng my own business meant taking time off was not really an option. And fortunately for me, I love what I do, and have enjoyed just getting back into everything (not just work), as soon as I could.

    I was on the phone within an hour and a half of coming out of my maatectomy surgery talking to my team; back in the office five days after the operation for half days, and back to it 100 per cent (with others standing in to do the physical stuff I wasnt't allowed to) within a fortnight.

    I have worked right through chemo, not taking any time off. I have it done on Fridays so I have the weekend to laze around and take it a bit easier. I've blogged elsewhere on my experience of chemo round 1, and happy to report round 2 has been similar (all crossed for three and four), so apart from a totall of two days where I have felt off in the past five weeks, it's been business as usual more or less.

    A friend who went through a double mastectomy for BC 18 months ago did have the option of taking time off work and did for 6 months, and in retrospect regrets it. She says she went completely to pieces (which she says was out of kilter with the diagnosis and treatment she had to have for DCIS, no node involvement, no radiation, no chemo, preventative mastectomy on one side) and thinks it was because she spent too much time on her own dwelling and thinking instead of just getting on with life.

    The best thing to do is listen to your own body; listen to your own heart.

    If I had had the option of being able to take a month out to do nothing much, I would have seized it with both hands, as I do all holiday opportunitities, but I didn't and fortunately the surgery and chemo gods have been kind to me so far, and it's meant I want to, and can keep woking.

    Take care and wishing you all the best for what you decide is right for you.

    x

     

  • Great Katie! it sounds like you are satisifed with your decisions and you are the only one that you need to please:_) The problems and soltions are different for all of us:_)

    All the best

    Safarian

  • Welcome to the club. 

    Congrats on nearly finishing Chemo and keeping up work. I took time off work I couldnt juggle everything. 

    I was a bit hesitant about support groups too. But when I found this online community I changed my mind. Now I run my own support group for young women.