Lucia1
13 years agoMember
Under 40 & single
Hi there!
I had a lump removed recently and did not receive a clear margin. I have been to see an oncologist who recommends Chemo and then hormone therapy.
I am still hopeful of having children b...
Hi Lucia,
What a roller coaster you are on at the moment. I remember exactly what it was all like. I was 33 when i was diagnosed, I'll be 35 in 5 months. I had chemo and radio and are now on tamoxofin and zoladex for the next 4 years. We decided to freeze our eggs before chemo which makes me feel a lot better about having kids in the future. I have one little boy whos three now and although its a shame that he wont have close sibblings in age, i do think its important to go through the chemo. For me it was about peace of mind. Its been 18 months since my daignosis now and my hair is back and my energy and I am feeling really good. Yes, cancer is a shitty card to be dealt but if you can slam it down now with the treatment and never have it ever again, thats a lot better than some women get it. I'm always here if you need support or have any questions. All my very best, Harmony xo