Hi Suzy, if you had a friend who asked you to make sure people were aware of the implications of their choices because she did not, perhaps you too would think it important to speak out as askedfor her sake and her kids' sake, to just put the story and facts out there, It is about all I can do for her now, so I did it. If you don't want to read it, please feel free not to.
I totally support your right to make your own choice on this I totally agree that you are intelligent and capable of making a good decision. I did not say otherwise. Sorry if it sounds like I am on a soapbox. I just really care that this does not happen to others because they are unaware of the possibilities, not you but others who read this link and like so many including my friend, go off treatment because nobody ever actually said what the implications can be. I am devastated this has happened to her.