Forum Discussion
Thanks Tri.
I really want to find others who've made the decision I have made to stop hormone blockers. I am still seeing and talking to my oncologist, keeping the door & communication open.
My oncologist started me on Exemestane and I had 3 very bad days of nausea and stopped. I'm waiting for him to respond and know he will suggest I try one more before he gives me his "blessing" to discontinue.
I'd really like to find other women who have decided not to proceed with hormone blockers. Is anyone out there? If so pls feel free to send me a private message. I was fine with my decision at first but anxiety is starting to rear it's ugly head and it would be so nice to find a support group of some sort. I have actually met at least 5 women who stopped hormone blocking therapy, one was 15 years ago and she is still cancer free. Many of these women don't actually want to talk a lot about their decision past their initial conversation. It triggers them and I understand this. They have made their decision and want to move on with their lives. Everyone makes their own decision and I'm 99% sure I'll stick with mine. I'm still in early days and I know I won't want to talk about this for ever...but right now I do.
I applaud those of you who want to continue and push past any side effects.... but I'm not in that camp. If it was 10 weeks or maybe even 10 months of treatment I would consider this but 10 years on something that has serious side effects to my quality of life is not an option for me.
I know the cancer may come back one day...but I also know from women I've met that it may not.
If anyone else has made (or is trying to make the choice I've made I'd really love to connect somehow.
HiJosephineB1 you raise issues that we really need to address. I agree whether or not to take endocrine therapy ((AIs) is such a personal choice.
One thing I feel a bit surprised about is the absence of qualitative data and even quantitative data - but if the data is there I’d like to understand it better, so I can make an informed decision.
I think there’s something we might be able to learn from this new initiative to record the data about people living with metastatic cancer (which BCNA has successfully advocated for).
It seems odd to me that the national data isn’t there to delve a bit deeper into the long term outcomes and success of treatment decisions - whether it’s radiation, chemo or AI - in preventing cancer recurrence or metastases beyond a five year survivorship benchmark.
In my case I am staying on Letrozole for now and I have to accept that it’s actually no guarantee that I won’t have recurrence.
I understand what you’re saying about quality of life and the decision you’ll make and no doubt reassess from time to time. Go well.