Hey! I totally agree! there are times it doesnt matter what you do you are sad and teary and a range of emotions. Its not a matter of being positive it has nothing to do with it, and makes me MAD when people say that to you...you are entitled to every single emotion you feel at any given time. This is about YOU it doesnt impact anyone else the same way it does you and I think its healthy because thats the only way we move through those sad hard times and find a better day maybe not tomorrow but it comes and we are on an even keel again. Its a process. So just be YOU! we are all here!! Hugs Melinda xo